My body... Is not working, To say the least.
Last night, after a rigorous drumline practice, I attended a concert for one of my new favorite bands, Adestria. It was a first time hardcore show for me; however, after months of pent up emotion I was beyond stoked to let some feelings out in the form of hardcore dancing. It was pretty awesome, I must say. And I recieved my share of being destroyed, which is surprisingly rewarding.
Now the following day (today) I played the city Battle of the Bands with some friends of mine.
We were.... Not great at all? But we had fun, and that's the thing that matters(?). Although I was not functioning very well at all the entire day.
Now while I was there, a friend if mine came up to me and said "dude I totally called out your ex on her blog last night, I said dear (insert ex-gf's name here) this is (insert friends name here) on behalf of Eli." and went on and on about how she needs to get over things and grow up and such (it was rather harsh).
Now, I like this friend, and I kind of chuckled at the time to fit in with the other friends cracking up, but I feel like that was uncalled for.
I'm glad I have friends who stick up for me, but not only did he not ask me (which isn't REALLY a big deal) but i didn't need any sticking up for. As far as I know, SHE has moved on.
it was just beating a dead horse, like with a spikey stick. It won't help anything, it'll just make people more upset.
I don't want to sound like I'm kissing up to her, but it wasn't necessary. It was pretty much rude, which no doubt has been a reoccuring theme between she and I in inpersonal ways, but I hoped we could just break it and let each other live their lives. But we'll see what God has planned. I won't apologize, it wouldn't help anything, I'll just explain to my friend my thoughts, and if he thinks I'm a puss, then I apologize.